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    Hi all

    I'd like to share my story and am hoping it will help others.

    In 2009, I began falling asleep during the day and put it down to age (then 46). I work from home, so having a little siesta most days wasn't a problem. Unfortunately, I then started to fall asleep in office meetings especially if the room was stuffy. Once, I fell asleep whilst fanning my face with a notepad - I'd felt drowsy and thought if I fanned my face, I wouldn't fall asleep whilst moving my arm. I was awoken by the sound of the notepad falling to the floor!

    My boss phoned me one day and asked if I had a medical issue as it had been noticed I'd nodded off in customer meetings. I said something was wrong and promised to go to the doctors.

    In the meantime, my symptoms were getting worse. I was waking in the night with a tongue so dry it felt like sandpaper and I could pick off hard-crusted lumps of saliva (gross, I know). Eating anything with even a hint of chilli was awful because my tongue was so sore, with a huge crack down the middle and lots of painful spots around the edges. Any journey greater than 10 miles in the car would make me drowsy and I started to plan journeys and go to a service station or lay-by for a 15 minute sleep, setting my mobile phone to wake me. I also had a small thumb-sized rash on the back of my hand which no cream would fix. My weight was increasing even though I ate healthily and hadn't changed my eating habits.

    By 2010, my siestas were now stretching to 4 hours, on occasions. Visits to my parents meant that I would arrive, fall asleep, be woken up for Sunday lunch, fall asleep again and then be woken up to go home. I was falling asleep talking to people on the phone. I began to slur my words sometimes when talking on the phone. I could hear myself slurring but remember thinking it was just too much effort to repeat what I'd said and pronounce it properly. Once, I had lunch with a friend and fell asleep whilst eating/talking!

    I went to my GP and was immediately referred to a specialist who sent me for a sleep test. I had 3 nights of tests at home; one for sleep monitoring, one for blood pressure and another for heart, I think. The specialist told me that my sleep tests were the highest he'd ever seen and that I stopped breathing 109 times an hour. He also said my heart was stopping for 3.5 seconds at a time and that my waking oxygen levels in my blood were 83% (should be 95%+ apparently). I was told I would go to the top of the waiting list at my local hospital for a CPAP machine.

    Two months later, I was given a CPAP machine (Sept 2010). From the first night, it changed my life. For a couple of months, I did have a little trouble sometimes - waking up with the mask on my forehead or my chin. I found it funny and joked that I was doing an impression of Darth Vader or an elephant (hose = trunk!). I seem to have cracked it now and sleep for about 6.5 hours a night. I almost never awake in the night and always awake feeling rested. Since the first night, my sleepiness symptoms have gone. My tongue healed after a month. My small rash has cleared up 2 years after it appeared.

    One of the best changes is weight loss. The weight is literally falling off me. I never weigh myself (as I believe size is more relevant, not what the scales say) but estimate I've lost 2-3 stone and 2-3 dress sizes. To give you an idea of how rapid my weight loss is: I found some new jeans I'd bought ages ago which were too small then. I put them on 2 weeks ago but the waist was just uncomfortably too tight. I put them back in my wardrobe thinking I'd leave it a little while and try them on again. I put them on yesterday, 2 weeks later, and they are now too big and I can take them off without undoing the waist! I'm not more active and haven't changed my eating habits at all!

    I now feel a completely different person. My friends believe I've had OSA for at least 5 years. I can't believe how ill I'd become. It's amazing how the body can function under such austere conditions. I also realise now that I wasn't 'falling asleep' all the time. I was losing consciousness! Falling asleep all the time sounds funny and people will laugh about it. Being unconscious isn't funny at all and makes you realise the seriousness of this illness.

    I hope I haven't bored you all. I hope someone is reading this who now decides to go to the doctor sooner than I did. I am certain that I was living on borrowed time. I am so glad I'm back to normality now, thanks to my CPAP machine.

    x

  • #2
    That's a great outcome and similar outcome to mine, I skipped the waiting lists but the change is huge!

    Thanks for sharing.

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    • #3
      Hi London Lady

      Glad to hear your story--some of us have stories much alike and some are very different. I have heard one other who complained about the dry tongue (Montana)--but I am sure there must be a lot of us who have had that problem. I have had mild Apnea most of my life. I used to wake often at night terrified as a child, and fall asleep in my sand.box or playing with toys in the day. When other teens went out after school for a coke and fries--I went home for a nap. Couldn't stay awake in school all the time, too tired to go shopping with my 7 sisters, or go to many football games. I was a Cheerleader for one year--but that was way too exhausting. Always fell asleep in Church, so quit going when I was 16. I got married at 18, and had 3 children right away--that was tough being awake all night and day with only short naps. Then I divorced my husband after 7 years of hell--and found a nice guy and married again 6 months after the divorce. We had a son 2 years later, and have aged together for 40 years, and now at 65 we have retired, and moved to a 20 Acre farm. Our 40 year old son is living with us and pretty much takes care of the farm. He doesn't show any interest in getting married, or forming a partnership. A year ago the hospital discovered my apnea when I was hospitalized there for another reason. I had 52 AHI an hour every time I got into REM Sleep--my oxygen dropped to 79. They said its a mild form of Central Apnea, and they were lucky to catch it. Since starting on my CPAP my whole life has changed--now I am not tired all the time. I have beautiful dreams now--something I can't remember ever having before. Over the years, I had a lot of short nightmares--very difficult and terrifing when I was a child. Now I can't wait for Spring, so I can get out and garden and take some hikes in the woods. Wish I could say I was losing weight fast since starting the CPAP---but its slow going for me. I have lost about 30 lbs in the last year. The DR says losing slow is best. But am happy to be getting into jeans that I haven't been able to wear for 6 years. As a Diabetic--diet is always foremost in my mind. Congrats on doing well. Happy to hear your story. We all share some of the same problems and this is a great place to make friends, and get good advice. Have a good day. x Berneta

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      • #4
        Great Story

        Thanks for sharing that, for me it brings back many memories especially the nodding off bit, feeling of being so tired that you just dont care about anything else but sleeping, my favourite was falling asleep at trafic lights

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        • #5
          Hi London Lady,

          That was a lovely story and beautifully told. Many here will be able to empathise with you on the details, like falling asleep when someone is talking to you! That used to happen to me: very embarrassing, too!

          I work from home and, before diagnosis, like you, I would snatch an afternoon siesta. Invariably, the phone would ring and wake me; I would answer, giving my full attention to the caller who perhaps wanted to place an order or amend their existing order. Putting the phone down, I would forget who had called and what they had called about. Totally wiped from my consciousness. That happened many times, putting the family business in jeopardy every time. 'Oh, he's done it again!' became a depressingly frequent cry from the troops when things went wrong.

          The dangers of undiagnosed Sleep Apnoea cannot be emphasised too much: it's one thing to fall asleep at your desk, but imagine what might happen if you're driving a 40-tonne articulated truck down the motorway, and you fall asleep. . . .

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          • #6
            Thanks for all your nice and supportive comments!

            I'd forgotten about the dreams. Before I had my mask, my dreams were vivid and I was very aware of talking out loud in my sleep - I guess that means I wasn't fully asleep.

            I was going to write that I'd never fallen asleep at traffic lights but I then remembered I used to 'rest my eyes' at traffic lights near my house, sometimes trying to do it with just one eye.

            I also wondered, when reading your replies, why we put up with so much before going for help. Reading back it seems utter madness. But then I realised it's an attempt at normality because the symptoms are so gradual, we naturally try to explain them away and then that becomes our normal. It's only when you get the mask and the change back to real normality is so sudden and often after just one night, that you realise how bad things had got.

            x

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