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    I received a email this morning telling me a post had been updated so I had a look in the forum including some of my posts over the last 18months .

    I hope this posting will provide some guidance to anyone starting the process of diagnosis . Hopefully my passion and style of writing doesn't come across as a " look at me " because that's not my intention .

    My story

    I believe that I may have suffered from OSA from early teens and always had problems with concentration which was documented on a early school report as doseydoe has a lethargic approach to life my parents also tape recorded me snoring as it was a bit of laugh . That would have been in 1977ish . My father was a snorer with huge breathing gaps , sadly he has now passed away aged 66 from liver disease which was possibly related to undiagnosed sleep spnea .
    His symptoms were falling asleep at the wheel regularly , massive indigestion problems , generally tired and up several time of the night etc .

    keep an eye on other members of the family chances are your not the only one .

    I will leave a huge gap and move to my early 20's . I did the studying bit and got a very good education but had to work far harder than fellow students .

    Undiagnosed OSA makes studying 10 times harder and can mess with your head as you believe you are bit slower than others , why should anyone think differently .

    Once you have been treated be tolerant of other people around you who get into work late are caught napping , look like they have been on the lash all night , fall asleep on training courses and usual OSA symptoms .

    Another gap moving on to 30's , still no idea I had OSA . Several visits to the doctor and I was sent away with advice like . Go and sort yourself out do more exercise , get more sleep !!

    That its what I did ,worked out , swam miles , cycled , walked and did get very fit . But still dosed off inappropriately .

    If the word inappropriately start appearing in your life your probably on the right path . Its the equivalent of " my name is and I am an alcoholic "

    The advice my doctor gave was wrong not because he was a bad doctor but the information I gave him was uninformed .

    We all need to exercise and the odds are OSA = Overweight " there are exceptions " go for fat burning cardio type exercise , stay away from being a prop forward , weights etc put the strength in your legs not chest and neck How many rugby players , weight / body builders are on this forum ? quite a few I would guess .

    If you have children try and guide them into sports that will develop the lower body , if like mine they are rugby mad keep them on the wing . Leave someone else get the 20inch neck ! .

    Yet another gap now 40's . Moved house changed doctor big leap of faith as I had the same doctor from childhood . Had a minor motorcycle accident after falling asleep . This has happened 100's of times over the years but my odds ran out .

    My wife did some research and made me go to the doctor to explain my symptoms blokes are rubbish at this bit " your partner is the 1st to know " .

    Sleep study arranged 3 months waiting !.

    Pick the phone and phone the DVLA . It is probably the hardest part of the process but you must do it . Not because its the law , laws are made to be broken .Its simpler that that, you will probably kill someone . Don't kid yourself in to believing you will pull over and have a coffee .

    Sorry to go on about this one but

    You must must tell them , the 1st few days are bizarre if you cant drive . There are alternatives . Depending on your employer it may be to your benefit for Occupational health to know . In my experience your Manager or HR don't have a clue what OSA is and never will . However looking at my manager he is probably prime suspect no 1 !! lol .


    It took me 9 months to get my license back .

    At this stage I knew with the help of the internet there was no question that my problem was OSA even before the sleep study . So I bought a Auto Cpap on the internet while waiting for my sleep study .

    That was scary I had no idea what I was doing , set it to auto put full face mask on and hit the button . I though I was going to die , for a few days I felt like dying no sleep , dry mouth and headaches but I stuck with it and after a few weeks and things improved a little .

    I am sure someone will disagree with the next bit .

    Buy yourself a AUTO cpap they are available and dont cost £500 . If you have a xbox or ps3 you can afford an auto cpap . Just search for 2nd wind cpap .


    I eventually got my sleep study and a CPAP machine after 6 months .

    Personally I think it wrong to have a NHS machine when my own is far better but you have to have it to stay in the system . There are times when a Auto CPAP works better , eg After a lot of alcohol .

    Dead hands . I had real problems with dead hands and arms , this started the same time a OSA treatment . The final out come was Carpal Tunnel release in both wrists . I would add this was only done after through blood tests to eliminate thyroid , diabetes and all other nastiest .

    Approx 1 year after diagnosis things were going well , people had commented that I look well but I still suffered from day time drowsiness . From here the NHS really dragged their feet .

    Again hours on the internet guided me to Modafinil . Unfortunately you cant just go to your sleep study center and ask for it because you have read on the internet that its what you need .

    If you are compliant and use your CPAP and your o2 levels are fine but you are dissatisfied with the outcome its probably the route to go .

    If you use your CPAP but still feel tired don't give up . Unlike buying a CPAP machine Modafinil is not so easy to get . Yes you can buy it on line but even I draw the line at that one , you just have to go through the system .

    Conclusion . It takes time , for me nearly 2 years , use Forums if only to get a worry of your chest , use the internet and other peoples experience to learn about OSA .

    Its a bumpy ride you may have to deal with employment problems , no driving , extra stress for your family , roll a coaster emotions , sitting in waiting rooms , having a mask attached to your face every night .

    But believe me it is worth every discomfort every bad emotion . To feel alive and motivated again .

  • #2
    Glade things are working out for you.

    Your GP that didn't know much about your symptoms would not be an unusual story as even now some GPs are nopt fully up to speed and will look for lots of other reasons as to why someone is always tired during the day. Maybe quite rightly so, but when it is explained what symptoms you have and they look at other things i.e. blood test they should then turn to looking towards Sleep Clinics or E.N.T, for an answer. It is sad that GPs are only now becoming aware of how OSA affects you. People are becoming more aware of Sleep Apnoea these days due to people trying there best to make others aware and also from sites like this and others and also for campaigns in local and national papers. however it is the people out there that have not been diagnosed and are driving or working machinery that worry me, not those that are under treatment.
    I agree with your comment that it is not safe to think you will stop and have a coffee (even if that had any effect on you it would soon return) if you feel tired, it is the long blink that may kill you and/or others that you have to worry about.
    As for exercise, all you need to do is go out and walk as fast as you can for as long as you can, better than a push bike, but each to their own. At least you can get around and see a lot more on a push bike that you can in a car.

    Hope the future works out better for you and a belated Happy New Year.

    S2S
    S2S - Sleep2Snore

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    • #3
      DoseyDoe - Thank you for your story. Yet more encouragement for those of us just starting out.

      I think I'd agree with everything you said in your post, the only thing I'd add is that if you can afford your own Auto CPAP then skip the sleep study waiting list and get an in home sleep study sorted too, as soon as I suspected I had OSA I wanted to get it sorted, and weeks of being unable to drive were (as a self employed person) unacceptable to me.

      And read the forums, this one, others, anything that gets you to relate to a group of similarly afflicted and treated people - help and encouragement needs to come from somewhere, thankfully for me I have a good friend who has been on CPAP for a while (and her dad was also on CPAP until weight loss surgery) and she has been very helpful.

      Finally the family thing is interesting, as I just mentioned my friend's dad had OSA and she does too, and I was chatting to another friend the other day - he snores like a train (his wife was complaining about it!) and I told him about my OSA (I don't make it public normally) and CPAP - turns out his dad also uses CPAP - suffice to say he's heading back to his doctor now - I may loan him my oximiter for a night...

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      • #4
        Doseydoe, thanks for the story.

        I really believe that just hearing about another persons experiences can help reassure. Since I started CPAP towards the end of last year I have been busy writing a short book about my experience.

        It helped my just writing about it... I hope it helps others reading about it...

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